It’s 11:32 p.m. I’m wrapped in my coziest cardigan, half-watching a crime documentary while furiously typing, “Why does my left knee make a clicking noise when I stand up?” This is not a one-off. This is my life. This is the secret Google life of women 40 and beyond. If you’re anything like me, you’ve gone from using Google to help your kids with science projects to using it as your go-to for late-night health scares, weird skin things, and “Am I the only one who feels like I’ve lost my damn mind?” moments.

If you’re anything like me, you’ve gone from using Google to help your kids with science projects to using it as your go-to for late-night health scares, weird skin things, and “Am I the only one who feels like I’ve lost my damn mind?” moments.

Because the truth is: midlife is wild.

It’s funny, chaotic, liberating—and yes, occasionally mortifying. And while we may have grown bolder with age, we’re still discreet enough to type “perimenopause symptoms” at 1 a.m. in incognito mode.

So let’s just put it all out there. Life unfiltered. Here are 45 things we actually Google in midlife. If you nod your head to more than a few of these, welcome to the Silver Sage Collective. You’re one of us.

1. Is this menopause… or just Tuesday?

Could be both. Menopause has officially come out of the closet—and thank hot flashin’ heaven for that. We’re finally talking about it out loud (and not just whispering over wine). There are legit resources now: cooling PJs and sheets that won’t leave you waking up in a puddle, hormone replacement therapies—both natural and pharmaceutical—and badass experts like Dr. Mary Claire Haver leading the charge. This isn’t your mother’s menopause—we’ve got options, support, and zero tolerance for suffering in silence.

2. Is it normal to feel stiff everywhere in the morning?

Yes! You’re not turning into the Tin Man. Our joints lose lubrication as we age. Totally normal, friend. Fight back with 5–10 minutes of gentle stretching before you even leave the bed—think ankles, hips, shoulders. Add a splash of collagen to your coffee, stay hydrated, and get moving early in the day. Your body’s not broken—it just needs a little oil and encouragement.

3. How do you know if your collagen left the building?

If your cheeks are deflating and your skin feels like it’s losing the will to cling—yep, collagen’s leaving the party. It’s a midlife breakup we didn’t ask for, but peptides and supplements can help you patch things up.

4. Botox: will it make me look refreshed or like a startled cat?

Depends on who’s holding the syringe. A good injector = subtle and glowy. A bad one = Real Housewives reunion. Do your homework. Talk to your friends. Read the reviews. This is not a time to make a spontaneous decision. 

5. Why am I suddenly ragey over the sound of chewing?

Two words: hormone shifts welcome to perimenopause. Estrogen drops can mess with mood regulation, and suddenly your partner’s chewing feels like a personal attack. Deep breaths… or noise-canceling headphones. This time of life will make your raging, PMS’ing teen self seem like she had it good.

6. Is “hair thinning at the crown” reversible?

Sometimes, yes! Hormones, stress, thyroid drama, low iron, and vitamin D can all gang up on your hairline. Get your levels checked and have a chat with your doc before you panic-buy all the serums. And let’s cool it with the daily tight ponytails—your scalp deserves better than constant tension and elastic trauma. Treat your crown gently.

7. How much bloat is too much bloat?

If you start the day feeling fabulous and by 6 p.m. look six months pregnant—welcome to the bloat club. Could be hormones, gut health, or even food sensitivities. Track it, tweak your diet, and hydrate like it’s your job. Hormones are complicated during perimenopause and menopause is no picnic either.

8. Can I do microdermabrasion at home or will I sandblast my face?

DIY versions exist, but unless you want to look like you face-planted on a cheese grater, start with a gentle exfoliant or see a pro. Your skin deserves love, not trauma. If you’re serious about glow, find a licensed esthetician or derm who knows their stuff. Look for someone with great reviews, a clean setup, and who doesn’t treat your appointment like a product pitch. You want skill, not sales pressure—your face is not for experimenting.

9. What’s the difference between a ruptured cyst and mild panic—because both are ruining my night?

They both come with drama, but one’s in your pelvis and the other’s in your brain. A ruptured cyst usually brings sharp, sudden pelvic pain, sometimes with nausea or spotting. Mild panic? That’s the 2 a.m. spiral in your bathrobe after too much time on Dr. Google. If you’re clutching your lower abdomen and can’t walk it off—call your doc. Better safe than sorry (or doubled over in Target).

10. Do probiotics fix everything or is that just marketing hype with a sprinkle of yogurt?

Not everything, but they sure help with digestion, mood, and even skin. Think of them like your gut’s girl gang—keeping things in check when hormones try to throw a tantrum. Just make sure you’re picking a quality brand with strains that actually do something (not just sit there like a useless ex). And give it a few weeks—gut health is a long game, not a one-pill miracle.

11. Adult acne. Again?! Are you freaking kidding me?

Yep, your hormones decided to party like it’s puberty—but this time with fine lines and chin hair. Midlife skin is going through a whole identity crisis: oilier in some spots, desert-dry in others, and yes, zits that pop up just in time for the big event. A solid skincare routine (hello, gentle cleanser, retinol, and niacinamide) and maybe a trip to the derm can help calm the chaos. Because we’re too old to be fighting wrinkles and breakouts.

12. Spontaneity in bed…is it dead?

Not dead, just different. Menopause can mess with libido, but communication, lube, and a sense of humor go a long way. So does making time for pleasure—whatever that means to you now.

13. Jennifer Aniston’s skincare secrets (yes, we all wanna know)

She probably bathes in moonlight and La Mer, but let’s be real—good genes and good habits help. Clean living, hydration, SPF, and maybe a little Hollywood magic.

14. Natural hot flash remedies (and do they actually work?)

Sometimes! Black cohosh, maca root, evening primrose, layered clothing, fans in every room… it’s trial and error. What works for one woman might be useless for another. Keep a symptom journal and experiment.

15. What are cherry angiomas and why are they everywhere?

Tiny red dots that pop up on your skin that are totally harmless, completely annoying, and seemingly multiply overnight. Blame aging blood vessels and, of course, hormones. If they’re messing with your vibe (or your tank top look), a quick zap with a laser can take them out. No downtime, just one less weird skin thing to wonder about in the shower. Aging is wild, but at least lasers exist.

16. How to look alive after 3 hours of sleep?

Concealer is your war paint, caffeine is your spirit guide, and cold spoons are the poor woman’s eye lift. Toss in a brisk walk to trick your body into thinking it’s functioning, and slap on a bold lip to distract from the chaos. Smile, hydrate, and fake it ’til you can power nap it—then do it all again tomorrow like the resilient goddess you are.

17. Are varicose veins just a midlife rite of passage?

They’re not guaranteed, but if you’ve got the family genes, stood on your feet for years, or carried a kid or two, your veins might start putting on a show. The good news? Compression socks, daily movement, and propping those legs up like royalty can help. And if they still pop out like party streamers—there’s always laser, injections, or surgery to shut the whole show down. Your legs, your call.

18. Does coffee cancel out my supplements—or am I just washing down vitamins with false hope?

Kind of, yeah. That magical morning brew can mess with how your body absorbs iron, calcium, and a few key vitamins. If you’re popping your supplements and chasing them with a triple latte, you might be flushing some of that goodness away. Give it 30–60 minutes before you caffeinate with your second cup.

19. Why am I more tired on weekends—shouldn’t I feel rested, not wrecked?

Here’s the deal: when you finally stop hustling, your body goes, “Oh good, now we can collapse.” It’s like a mini burnout hangover called the letdown effect. Your weekday go-mode hides the exhaustion, and weekends just let it surface. Keep your sleep routine steady-ish, hydrate, and maybe skip the all-day pajama party (unless it’s earned).

20. Is it a headache or a brain tumor? (thanks, anxiety)

It’s probably tension, hormones, dehydration, or that third cup of coffee on an empty stomach—webMD be damned. But if it’s new, intense, one-sided, or just plain weird, don’t mess around— Google can’t replace a good neurologist. Anxiety loves to catastrophize so ruling things out is self-care.

21. Best CBD for sleep and sanity because counting sheep isn’t cutting it

When your hormones are in meltdown mode and your mind’s throwing a rave at 2 a.m., CBD can help dial it all down. Full-spectrum oils or gummies are popular picks for mood and sleep support—but quality matters. Look for brands that are third-party tested for purity and potency, especially if you want results (and to pass your own drug test—wink). Start low, go slow, and skip the gas station gummies unless you enjoy gambling with your serenity.

22. Can I pull off wide-leg jeans at 50?

Hell yes. The trick? Balance. Pair those flowy legs with a fitted top, a tucked blouse, or a structured jacket to show off that still-fabulous figure. Add a shoe with some attitude—a block heel, sleek sneaker, or ankle boot that says “confident”. Speaking of confidence, get better at knowing what you like and wear it like a boss. Fashion is the wild, wild west – anything goes – have fun with your look.

23. How do I dye my gray hair without looking like Elvira—or should I just let it shine?

Home dye kits can be hit or miss—especially when roots start playing peekaboo every two weeks. If you’re sticking with color, find a stylist who can blend your grays like a watercolor artist, not a paint roller. But if you’re ready to embrace the sparkle, know this: going natural is badass—but not always easy. That grow-out phase is real. Facebook groups like Silver Sisters are gold for support, tips, and “you got this” inspiration. Gray’s not just a color—it’s a power move.

24. Xanax alternatives that won’t make me a zombie

Magnesium, L-theanine, ashwagandha, meditation apps, therapy, walks in nature… there are options. Just make sure to run them by a pro if you’re managing anxiety.

25. Brain fog—real or just another midlife injustice?

Oh, it’s real. When estrogen dips, so does your brain’s ability to focus, recall words, or remember why you walked into the damn room. Suddenly, your to-do list has to live on sticky notes, and you’re Googling “symptoms of early on-set of dementia”. Be kind to your brain: sleep, hydrate, move your body, and give yourself grace. Omega-3s, magnesium, and mindfulness can help clear mental clouds. Blanking mid-sentence isn’t failure—it’s just flair. Fill in the gap with confidence and just keep swimming.

26. Why do my periods disappear and then show up like I’m hemorrhaging?

Welcome to perimenopause—where your uterus goes rogue. One month you’re convinced it’s over, the next you’re packing extra underwear in your purse. It’s totally normal, completely annoying, and worth a convo with your doctor if it gets extreme.

27. What if I retire without a million dollars?

You’re not alone. Retirement doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Start saving now, reduce expenses, and consider new income streams. And yes, it’s okay to redefine what retirement looks like.

28. Age spots: what are they and how do I make them disappear?

Sun souvenirs. If baby oil and sun-in sparks memories of obsessing about tan lines. I can almost hear the opening riff to Sweet Child o’ Mine right about now. SPF can prevent more, and serums with vitamin C, retinol, or hydroquinone can fade the ones you have. Or zap ‘em at the derm. Totally your call.

29. Aging eyes mean you’ll need readers at some point – decide to rock them.

Stylish ones do exist, and they’re fabulous. Look for fun shapes, bold frames, and don’t be afraid of color. Aging eyes don’t mean aging style.

30. Kombucha: friend or fermented foe?

Depends on your gut. Some swear by it, others get gassy and regret their life choices. Try a small amount and see how your belly feels.

31. Does plucking chin hairs summon more? 

Total myth—but once you spot one, you know more are coming. Tweezers work in a pinch, but if you’re tired of playing whack-a-mole with rogue hairs, look into laser hair removal. Bonus: laser can hair anywhere you’d rather not have it. It’s precise, fast, and with a few sessions, you’ll wonder why you didn’t zap the whole crew sooner.

33. Do non-surgical facelifts actually lift—or is it just expensive wishful thinking?

They do a little lifting—think more “refresh” than “full rewind.” Treatments like Ultherapy, radiofrequency, and thread lifts can tighten things up and give you that “well-rested, possibly European” look. Don’t expect to erase a decade, but you will get a confidence boost that pairs perfectly with a good latte and some tinted moisturizer.

34. Is it safe to run if my knees feel weird or achy?

It depends. Discomfort or popping are often harmless but pain is your body’s “Girl, hold up a second” signal. Pain alone doesn’t mean disaster, often, tight hips, hamstrings, or quads are to blame—not your knees themselves. Stretch it out, strengthen the supporting muscles, and if the pain is sharp or lingering make friends with a physical therapist who can help you run smarter.

35. Libido on sabbatical? Need some spice in the bedroom?

Routine is comfy, but so is flannel—and we don’t wear that to bed every night. Try a new setting, a little role play, or just talking openly about what turns you on now. Don’t know? Hard to summon up the interest? Get curious. Try a new vibe (literally) – today’s gadgets are discreet, gorgeously designed, and lightyears beyond the clunky stuff you hid in your sock drawer in the ‘90’s. Gadgets have tech, holy O! Sometimes your mind just needs a little nudge, read something steamy. Spice sex in midlife isn’t about acrobatics—it’s about laughing, experimenting, and giving yourself permission to want more.

36. Is it too late to open a retirement account?

My first thought? “It’s not over until the fat lady sings”—which immediately reminded me of my mom saying it growing up. I never really got it as a kid, but now? I know exactly what she meant. It’s never too late. Whether you’re 45 or flirting with 60, starting now is a bold, defiant act of self-care. Toss in what you can, explore catch-up contributions, and let compound interest do its magic. Honestly, getting your financial future in order feels empowering—and it usually leads to even more good choices. Plus, future you? She’s sipping something sparkly in yoga pants on a beach, high-fiving your badass today-self.

37. Does cryotherapy do anything, or am I just freezing my butt off for sport?

It might help with inflammation, muscle recovery, and giving you bragging rights at brunch. Mostly, it’s like tossing your nervous system into an icy plunge and yelling, “Wake up, sister!” If cold showers give you life and you secretly enjoy a little suffering with your wellness, this one’s for you. 

38. What foods keep things… moving? (You know what I mean.)

Ah yes, the quest for midlife regularity. Load up on fiber heroes like prunes, chia seeds, berries, and leafy greens—then wash it all down with plenty of water like the hydrated queen you are. Add in a little morning movement and a magnesium supplement at night, and voilà: happy gut, happy life. Because nobody has time for a sluggish system.

39. How to stop peeing at 3 a.m. every. single. night.

Cut fluids by 8 p.m., watch the caffeine and alcohol, and maybe check in with your pelvic floor. (Yes, that’s a thing—and it matters.) There are pelvic floor trainers on the market – Perifit is one brand to check out. You might also google the Buff Muff Method, just sayin’. 

40. Viagra for women—does that exist?

Oh, honey, it sure does. Listen, just because libido is low, or maybe DOA, it doesn’t mean the fire’s out—modern medicine’s got your back.There are pills, creams, hormones, and even gadgets. The solutions are plentiful. Personally? A testosterone pellet turned my “meh” into a “YES, MA’AM.” Sex life reclaimed.

41. What’s the real protein sweet spot for women in menopause—and does it start with breakfast?

Short answer? Yup. It absolutely starts with breakfast. Two eggs give you around 12 grams of protein—but most of us in midlife need closer to 90–100 grams a day to protect our muscle, boost our metabolism, and keep the “midsection mystery bulge” at bay. So, toss in some Greek yogurt, cottage cheese, or a protein shake and call it a power move.

42. Is it just me, or does building friendships in midlife feel trickier than it should?

Not just you, friend. Making new connections after 40 can feel worse than dating—awkward, vulnerable, and kind of exhausting. But it’s worth it. Start by showing up where women like you hang out—book clubs, art classes, hiking groups, or hell, even pickleball. Be brave, say hi, and remember: every best friend started out as a stranger.

43. Can I skip the gym if I walk a lot and occasionally lift a Costco haul?

Walking the dog is great for your heart, but it won’t keep your booty lifted or your bones solid. Lifting actual weights—like the kind that makes you say “holy hell”—tells your body you’re not going down without a fight. Mobility work is your recovery plan, so you can keep doing this at 70 and beyond. 

44. Can squinting really give me crow’s feet—or are those just laugh lines with a bad attitude?

Oh, it absolutely can. Squinting scrunches the delicate skin around your eyes, and over time, those little lines like to stick around. Grab the readers (you’re not fooling anyone), rock the sunglasses, and start treating your skin like it’s vintage silk. Add a good eye cream with peptides or retinol to your routine—because hydration and SPF are nonnegotiables. 

45. What do I do when my doctor says, “Well, your blood work looks normal”—but I still feel like a hot, meno mess?

You keep going. Because that answer? Not helpful. If you’re moody, tired, gaining weight, foggy, anxious, or just don’t feel like you anymore—your experience is real, and it deserves better than a shrug and a lab slip or worse a casual mention to get on depression meds – which is a solution for many, but maybe you know not for you. Find a provider who listens to you, who’s educated in menopause care (yes, certified menopause specialists exist), and who doesn’t brush off your symptoms like you’re being dramatic. Be assertive—like your life depends on it. Because in some ways, it does. You don’t have to suffer, white-knuckle, or “just wait it out.” There are answers. There are options. You are not alone—and you are absolutely worth fighting for.

We’re not here to pretend we have it all figured out. We’re here to laugh, learn, cry, Google weird stuff, and go on adventures anyway.

So the next time you’re up late with a heating pad, a cup of herbal tea, and a burning curiosity about your disappearing eyebrows—just know, you’re not alone.

We’re all out here, Googling by moonlight.

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For years, menopause was something women were expected to white-knuckle through with quiet dignity and a fan in their purse. But we’re calling BS on that. Midlife is too important—and too powerful—to be ignored, dismissed, or misdiagnosed. If your body feels like it’s playing a game of hormonal dodgeball, you’re not alone. And no, you’re not crazy.

This is the era of informed, bold women taking charge of their health—and it starts with knowledge. Whether you’re neck-deep in night sweats, staring down brain fog, or wondering if you’re the only one feeling unrecognizable in your own skin, the right book can be a game-changer.

Below are the best menopause and perimenopause books for women who want real answers, not patronizing advice. These books are honest, medically sound, inclusive, and even a little bit funny. We’ve also included a visual roundup of the many surprising symptoms that come with this transition—because spoiler alert: it’s not just hot flashes.

The New Menopause by Dr. Mary Claire Haver

If you want a smart, science-forward roadmap to the modern menopause experience, this is it. Dr. Haver is a board-certified OB-GYN and nutritionist who delivers solid advice on HRT, weight changes, muscle loss, sleep, and inflammation—without talking down to you.

Why it stands out:

• Up-to-date science
• Actionable lifestyle changes
• Empowers you to advocate for better care
  

It’s especially valuable if you’ve ever left a doctor’s office feeling dismissed. Dr. Haver reminds us that our health is worth fighting for, and that muscle mass and nutrition really do matter.

Watch this YouTube to hear Dr. Haver discuss health in the menopause years.

Estrogen Matters by Avrum Bluming, MD, and Carol Tavris, PhD

This book pulls no punches. It’s a deep dive into the misunderstood world of estrogen and HRT, challenging decades of fear and misinformation.

Bluming (a medical oncologist) and Tavris (a social psychologist) combine forces to examine the flawed studies that scared an entire generation away from hormone therapy. If you’re trying to understand whether HRT is right for you—or you’re just hungry for clarity—start here.

Why it matters:

• Separates science from fear
  
• Empowers informed conversations with your doctor
  
• Validates your right to choose what’s best for your body
  

The Menopause Brain by Lisa Mosconi, PhD

If you’ve been forgetting names, losing words mid-sentence, or feeling mentally slower, this one is for you. Dr. Mosconi is a neuroscientist who makes it clear: menopause and your brain are deeply connected.

This book explores how estrogen affects cognition and brain health, explains why brain fog is real (and not permanent), and offers strategies to support long-term mental sharpness.

Why you’ll love it:

• Neuroscience made readable
  
• Practical strategies for cognitive support
  
• Reassures you: you’re not broken, your brain is recalibrating
  

Also check out her earlier work, The XX Brain, which lays a broader foundation on women’s neurology and aging.

You Are Not Broken by Dr. Kelly Casperson

Part sex-ed, part pep talk, and all empowerment, this book is a must-read if you’ve ever felt betrayed by your libido—or unsure how to talk about it. Dr. Casperson is a urologist who wants women to understand their bodies, ditch shame, and take back their sexual health.

With humor and frankness, she breaks down anatomy, hormones, medical myths, and mindset in ways that are eye-opening and often hilarious. There’s no fluff here—just fire.

What you’ll find inside:

• Clear, compassionate explanations of sexual function
  
• How hormones affect desire and satisfaction
  
• A strong case for advocating for your pleasure
  

What Fresh Hell Is This? by Heather Corinna

The title says it all. This book is raw, radically inclusive, funny, and affirming. If you’ve ever felt invisible, furious, confused, or gaslit during this transition, Heather Corinna is the voice you didn’t know you needed. Part memoir, part manifesto, this book blends research with deeply human experiences. It addresses menopause through a social justice lens while still being wildly practical.

Why it resonates:

• Inclusive of all bodies and identities
  
• Centers lived experience, not just medical models
  
• Laugh-out-loud moments and real talk
  

How to Menopause by Dr. Louise Newson

Dr. Newson is one of the UK’s top menopause experts, and her approach is no-nonsense and user-friendly. This is your guide to symptoms, hormones, lifestyle shifts, and treatment options—served in a digestible format.

This book is ideal for women who want straight answers without sorting through jargon or outdated myths.

You’ll get:

• Clear definitions and symptom explanations
  
• A balanced look at HRT
  
• Practical advice to take to your doctor
  

So, What Should You Read First?

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, here’s a cheat sheet:

• New to menopause and want a full overview? Start with The New Menopause.
  
• Curious (or scared) about estrogen and HRT? Read Estrogen Matters.
  
• Feeling foggy and forgetful? Go with The Menopause Brain.
  
• Want to reclaim your sex life? Grab You Are Not Broken.
  
• Need laughs, truth, and inclusion? Start What Fresh Hell Is This?
  
• Want a clear, concise guide? Pick How to Menopause.
  

But Wait… Am I Even in Perimenopause?

If you’ve been asking yourself “Am I just tired, or is this perimenopause?”—you’re not alone. Here’s a reminder that the symptoms are broad, and often unexpected:

Common signs include:

• Brain fog
  
• Anxiety or rage
  
• Irregular periods
  
• Insomnia
  
• Skin changes
  
• Low libido
  
• Weight gain around the middle
  
• Hot flashes (of course)
  

And sometimes, a sudden desire to quit your life and move to a remote cabin. (We see you.)

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the 4 stages of menopause?

Postmenopause – everything after that.

Premenopause – before symptoms begin.

Perimenopause – hormonal changes start (can last 4–10 years).

Menopause – 12 months without a period.

What helps the most during perimenopause?

• Hormonal support (HRT or alternatives)
  
• Strength training
  
• Sleep hygiene
  
• Community
  
• Books like these
  

How do I talk to my doctor about this?

Bring notes. Hell, bring an Excel spreadsheet – I’m not kidding – if that’s what it takes to get your doctor to take you seriously. Ask about hormone levels. Reference data from books like The New Menopause or Estrogen Matters. And if you feel dismissed, find a new doctor. You deserve to be heard by your doctor.

Final Word: Midlife Isn’t a Crisis, It’s a Power Surge

These books aren’t about surviving menopause—they’re about owning it. Women in midlife are leading businesses, raising families, starting second careers, exploring the world, and learning how to live boldly in their own skin.

Let’s stop whispering about menopause and start making noise.

Which book spoke to you most?

We’d love to hear what resonated or welcome your recommends! Comment below or share this post with a friend who needs to know she’s not alone. Let’s rewrite the menopause story—together.

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Solo Travel for Women: Safe and Inspiring Places to Explore in the U.S.

Sedona, Arizona – A Spiritual and Outdoor Solo Travel Destination With its breathtaking red rock formations, Sedona is perfect for solo travelers who love nature, art, and spiritual wellness. Hike the Cathedral Rock Trail, indulge in a rejuvenating spa experience, or explore the vibrant local arts scene. Sedona is known for its welcoming and safe atmosphere, making it an excellent choice for independent women travelers.

Charleston, South Carolina – Southern Charm and Walkable Streets

If history, charm, and great food are on your list, Charleston is an ideal destination. Stroll through Rainbow Row, take a historic walking tour, and enjoy some of the country’s best seafood. Charleston’s friendly locals and easily navigable layout make it a stress-free solo destination.

Portland, Maine – A Foodie and Nature Lover’s Paradise

If you love fresh seafood, charming coastal views, and boutique shopping, Portland is for you. Walk along the Old Port’s cobblestone streets, take a ferry to the scenic Casco Bay Islands, and enjoy a lobster roll with a waterfront view. Maine’s friendly and laid-back vibe makes solo travel here feel effortless.

Boulder, Colorado – Outdoor Adventures and a Welcoming Vibe

Boulder is perfect for active women traveling solo. Whether you’re hiking the Flatirons, enjoying a farm-to-table meal, or exploring the Pearl Street Mall, Boulder’s friendly and health-conscious community makes it easy to feel at home.

Anchorage, Alaska – The Ultimate Solo Adventure

For women seeking adventure, Anchorage offers stunning natural landscapes, abundant wildlife, and an adventurous spirit. Take a glacier cruise, visit the Alaska Native Heritage Center, or hike in Chugach State Park. The city is known for its friendly locals and safe, easy-to-navigate environment.

Savannah, Georgia – History and Hospitality

Savannah’s cobblestone streets, historic squares, and welcoming locals create a dreamy solo travel experience. Take a haunted ghost tour, relax in Forsyth Park, and savor delicious Southern cuisine at a local café. With its pedestrian-friendly layout and charming atmosphere, Savannah is both safe and fun to explore solo.

Santa Fe, New Mexico – Art, Culture, and Southwestern Beauty

Santa Fe is a haven for women who appreciate art, culture, and stunning landscapes. Visit the Georgia O’Keeffe Museum, explore Canyon Road’s art galleries, and take in the natural beauty of the surrounding desert. The city’s small-town feel and strong artistic community create a warm and inviting environment for anyone traveling solo. 

Staying Safe While Traveling Solo

Women can travel solo travel safely keeping these safety tips in mind:

• Trust your instincts – If a situation feels off, remove yourself immediately.
• Share your itinerary – Let a friend or family member know where you’ll be and check in regularly.
• Stay aware of your surroundings – Avoid distractions like excessive phone use when navigating unfamiliar places.
• Book accommodations in safe areas – Research neighborhoods and opt for well-reviewed hotels or B&Bs. Read the reviews and if you can book places that have 24/7 staff on duty.
• Carry a personal safety device – A whistle, alarm, or pepper spray can provide peace of mind.
• Use reputable transportation – Stick with licensed taxis, rideshare services, or public transportation.

Making Friends on the Road

One of the most rewarding aspects of traveling alone is the opportunity to meet new people. Here’s how to build connections along the way:

• Join group tours – Walking tours, cooking classes, or local excursions are great ways to meet like-minded travelers.
• Stay in social accommodations – Boutique hotels, hostels with private rooms, or Airbnb stays often foster conversation with fellow travelers.
• Engage with locals – Strike up a conversation with shop owners, tour guides, or fellow diners at communal tables.
• Attend local events – Farmers’ markets, cultural festivals, and live performances provide natural opportunities to connect.

Common Questions About Solo Travel for Women Over 50

How Do You Travel Alone as a Woman?

Traveling alone as a woman requires confidence, preparation, and an adventurous spirit. Start with destinations known for being safe and friendly to solo travelers. Plan ahead by researching accommodations, transportation, and key attractions. Carry a reliable phone with emergency contacts, stay aware of your surroundings, and trust your instincts. Joining group activities, guided tours, or staying in social accommodations can also enhance the experience while providing opportunities to meet people.

What Is the Best Beach Town to Visit as a Woman Alone?

San Diego, California, is one of the best beach towns for solo female travelers. With its welcoming atmosphere, accessible transportation, and endless beachfront activities, it offers a perfect mix of relaxation and adventure. Neighborhoods like La Jolla and Coronado are great for exploring independently, offering scenic coastal views, local boutiques, and excellent dining options. The wellness-oriented community also means plenty of yoga classes, beach walks, and spa retreats for a rejuvenating solo trip. With its beautiful beaches, top-notch museums, and wellness-focused community, it’s easy to fill your itinerary. Spend the day in La Jolla, take a yoga class on the beach, or explore Balboa Park’s cultural attractions.

Embrace the Adventure

Solo travel for women over 50 is more than just an escape—it’s a way to embrace independence, discover new passions, and forge lasting memories. Whether you seek quiet reflection, cultural exploration, or thrilling adventure, the U.S. offers countless destinations that are both safe and inspiring.

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If you’ve hit midlife and you’re craving adventure, new friendships, and a chance to make a real difference, volunteering abroad might just be your next big thing. Forget the cruise ships and spa retreats—women 50+ are stepping into roles that matter, whether it’s teaching kids in Peru, rescuing sea turtles in Costa Rica, or supporting women’s empowerment programs in Africa. And the best part? You’ll meet like-minded, adventurous souls along the way. Because let’s be real—making friends in midlife isn’t always easy, but shared experiences (and maybe a few mosquito bites) have a way of forging lifelong connections.

Why Volunteering is a Midlife Power Move

For women 50+, an overseas volunteer trip isn’t just about giving back—it’s about getting back a whole lot in return. Here’s why it’s a genius idea:

• Friendship on Fast-Track: When you’re living, working, and laughing alongside other volunteers, connections happen fast. No small talk about the weather—just real bonds formed through shared purpose and adventure.
• New Scenery, New Perspective: Whether you’re deep in the Amazon or teaching English in Nepal, stepping into a new culture shakes up your routine and reignites your sense of wonder.
• Confidence & Purpose: Midlife is the perfect time to pivot, challenge yourself, and tap into passions that may have been put on the back burner.

And let’s not forget the pure joy of answering, “What have you been up to?” with, “Oh, just helping protect elephants in Thailand.”

Top Volunteer Experiences for Women Over 50

Not all volunteer programs are created equal, so finding one that fits your interests, abilities, and sense of adventure is key. Here are some of the best volunteer experiences for seniors:

1. Teaching & Community Support with Projects Abroad

Love working with kids or empowering women? Projects Abroad offers placements in education, social work, and even business mentorship in countries like Ghana, Vietnam, and Costa Rica. If you’ve got skills to share, this is where you put them to good use.

2. Conservation & Wildlife Rescue with GVI (Global Vision International)

For the nature-loving midlife rebel, GVI offers programs that leverage the unique skills of older volunteers. For instance, in South Africa, volunteers can engage in conservation projects, working alongside researchers to protect wildlife such as cheetahs, elephants, and rhinos. The organization provides comprehensive support and accommodations tailored to the needs of mature participants.

3. Healthcare & Public Health with IVHQ

Got a background in healthcare? IVHQ offers medical volunteer placements in countries like Peru and Tanzania. No medical degree? No problem—IVHQ provides affordable and flexible volunteer programs across more than 50 destinations. Their projects range from teaching and childcare to wildlife conservation and community development, accommodating various interests and skill levels. IVHQ provides affordable and flexible volunteer programs across more than 50 destinations. Their projects range from teaching and childcare to wildlife conservation and community development, accommodating various interests and skill levels.

4. Women’s Empowerment Projects with Global Volunteers

Passionate about helping women rise? Global Volunteers runs programs where you can teach business skills, mentor young women, or support female entrepreneurs in places like Nepal and Guatemala. This organization specializes in short-term volunteer opportunities, with programs that focus on community service, including teaching English, assisting with healthcare, and supporting local development projects. Their programs are designed to accommodate the schedules and interests of older adults.

How Volunteering Abroad Helps with Making Friends in Midlife

The magic of volunteering abroad isn’t just the work—it’s the people. When you’re tackling challenges together, friendships form fast. Here’s why:

• Shared Purpose = Instant Connection: When you’re working on a meaningful project, the small talk disappears. You’re immediately part of a team with a common goal.
• Diversity Brings Unexpected Friendships: You’ll meet fellow volunteers from all over the world, broadening your perspective and maybe even giving you a couch to crash on in a future trip.
• Lifelong Memories Bond You: Whether it’s a group hike at sunrise, a community meal, or a hard-earned laugh after a long day, these are the moments that turn strangers into friends.

What to Consider Before You Go

Before you pack your bags and book that one-way ticket, keep these things in mind:

• Physical Demands: Some programs require long hours on your feet, so choose wisely. There are plenty of options with lighter activity levels if needed.
• Accommodations & Comfort Level: Want a homestay? A dorm-style volunteer house? A private room? Know what you’re signing up for.
• Program Support & Safety: Pick an organization that offers solid support, clear expectations, and a strong volunteer network.

Final Thought: Why Not Now?

Volunteering abroad isn’t just for 20-somethings with backpacks. It’s for women 50+ who want to make a difference, find community, and inject a little (or a lot) of adventure into their lives. Making friends in midlife doesn’t have to feel like an uphill battle—when you step out of your comfort zone and into a shared experience, connection happens naturally. So why not now? The world is waiting.

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Making friends as an adult is no small feat, and if you’ve already started building connections (if not, check out our guide on how to make friends as an adult), congratulations! Now comes the next exciting step—keeping those friendships strong and creating a regular space to enjoy time together. One of the best ways to do this is by forming an adventure group with a shared activity that brings everyone together consistently.

A fun and engaging way to make this happen is by using the Scratch-Off Friends Adventure Book. This book is designed to inspire your friend group with new activities, deepen your connections, and create unforgettable experiences. Here’s how to form your group, structure your meetups, and get the most out of this adventure book!

Step 1: Confirm Your Group

The first step in making this work is identifying who wants to be part of your adventure crew. Here’s how to make it official:

• Extend an Invitation: Think about the friends you’ve recently made or those in your existing circle who love fun and connection. Send out an invite via text, email, or a group chat explaining your idea.
• Set Expectations: Let everyone know this is a casual but committed group that meets regularly to complete fun challenges together.
• Determine Group Size: A group of 4-8 people is ideal for flexibility while keeping it intimate and fun.

Step 2: Establish a Meetup Routine

Once you have your group, the key to success is setting up a routine that works for everyone. Here are some tips:

• Decide on Frequency: Will you meet weekly, biweekly, or monthly? Choose a timeframe that is realistic for everyone.
• Pick a Host or Rotate Leadership: Either assign a consistent host or rotate who plans each meetup.
• Choose a Meeting Place: Depending on the scratch-off activity, you may need to meet at someone’s home, a park, a coffee shop, or a specific event location.
• Use a Shared Calendar: Keep track of dates with a shared Google Calendar or group chat reminders.

Step 3: Start Scratching Off Adventures

The best part of this book is the element of surprise! Here’s how to use it effectively:

• Pick Your First Activity Together: Have the group vote on a category or take turns scratching off adventures.
• Commit to the Challenge: Whatever activity is revealed, embrace it with enthusiasm!
• Capture the Memories: Take photos or keep a journal of your experiences to look back on.
• Reflect and Connect: After each adventure, chat about what you loved, what surprised you, and what you’d like to do next.

Step 4: Keep the Group Engaged and Thriving

To ensure your adventure group stays active and fun, consider these ideas:

• Theme Nights: Plan themed activities around certain scratch-off adventures, like “Outdoor Day,” “Creative Night,” or “Try Something New Week.”
• Celebrate Milestones: Mark your progress through the book and celebrate achievements together.
• Be Flexible: Life happens, so be understanding if someone can’t make it occasionally.
• Invite New Friends: If the group feels open to it, occasionally invite new friends to join a meetup and keep the energy fresh.

Step 5: Strengthen Friendships Beyond the Book

While the adventure book is a fantastic tool for building shared experiences, deepening friendships takes intention. Keep the momentum going by:

• Checking In on Each Other: Friendship is more than activities—make time for real conversations.
• Planning Trips or Special Events: Once your group is solid, consider planning a weekend getaway or a bucket list adventure.
• Supporting Each Other’s Lives: Show up for each other beyond the meetups, whether it’s attending a birthday dinner, lending a hand, or just being there for support.

Just do it!

Building a close-knit friend group takes effort, but it’s one of the most rewarding things you can do for your happiness and well-being. The Scratch-Off Friends Adventure Book is an easy and structured way to keep friendships thriving while adding excitement to your social life.

So, what are you waiting for? Gather your crew, set up your first meetup, and start scratching off adventures together. Who knows? This might just become one of the best traditions you’ve ever started! Looking for more ways to build community and create meaningful experiences in midlife and beyond?

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Ladies, let’s be real—making new friends in midlife isn’t as easy as it was back in the day when all it took was a shared love of Bon Jovi and Aqua Net. But guess what? There’s an app for that (actually, several). Whether you’re looking for adventure buddies, a travel companion, or a new bestie for coffee dates, these five apps are designed to help women like us find genuine, meaningful connections.

Top 5 Friendship Apps for Women 50+

Meetup – Whether you’re into hiking, book clubs, or trying new restaurants, Meetup helps you find local groups and events based on your interests. The best part? Many of these groups host regular meetups, making it easy to build consistency in your friendships. Plus, Meetup’s event-based system removes the awkwardness of initiating one-on-one meetups with new friends.

Bumble BFF – Swipe your way to friendship! Like its dating counterpart, Bumble BFF matches you with like-minded women looking for platonic connections. A great feature is the ability to set up your profile with a brief bio, your interests, and what you’re looking for in a friend. The app’s built-in messaging system makes it easy to chat before meeting in person, reducing first-meeting jitters.

Hey! VINA – Created specifically for women, this app matches you based on shared interests and values. Think of it as Tinder (without any r for gal pals. What makes Hey! VINA stand out is its quiz-based algorithm, which pairs you with potential friends based on personality compatibility. The app also provides friendship-focused articles and resources to help women navigate friendships in adulthood.

Nextdoor – Perfect for making connections close to home, Nextdoor helps you meet neighbors and join local interest groups. It’s not just about borrowing a cup of sugar—many women have found walking partners, local fitness buddies, and even fellow pet lovers who live just down the street. This app is ideal if you want to strengthen your sense of local community while making new friends.

Peanut – Originally designed for moms, this app has expanded to include women at all life stages, offering a safe space to build friendships. Peanut has a unique “wave” feature that allows you to express interest in connecting with someone before starting a chat. It also includes topic-based groups where you can join discussions on everything from travel to wellness to empty nesting.

A Silver Sage Success Story

Mary, a 56-year-old retired nurse, moved to a new city where she knew no one. She joined a local walking group through Meetup and connected with a fellow midlife adventurer, Jane. At first, they bonded over their shared love of the outdoors, but their friendship quickly deepened. Together, they’ve tackled five national parks, swapped book recommendations, and even planned a European getaway. All thanks to one little app and a leap of faith.

Similarly, Linda, 63, found herself craving meaningful conversations after her kids moved away. She joined Hey! VINA and connected with a fellow book lover, Susan. Their weekly coffee chats turned into a book club with other like-minded women. Now, they’ve built a close-knit circle of friends who support each other through life’s ups and downs.

What Women 50+ Need to Know About Friendship Apps

• Be clear about what you want. Are you looking for a workout buddy, a travel companion, or deep conversations over a glass of wine? Choose the right app for your needs. Many apps allow you to filter potential friends by shared interests and activities.
• Stay safe. Always meet in a public place for the first few hangouts. Trust your instincts—if something feels off, move on. Some apps have verification features that add an extra layer of security.
• Be open-minded. Friendship can come from unexpected places. That woman who seems completely different from you might just be your new best friend. Give conversations time to develop—some of the best friendships start slowly!
• Put yourself out there. Don’t just wait for connections to happen. Send that first message, join that group, and say yes to invites! Friendships don’t build themselves—being proactive makes all the difference.
• Be patient. Just like dating, finding the right friends takes time. You might not click with everyone you meet, but that’s okay. Keep trying, and eventually, you’ll find your tribe.

Finding meaningful friendships in midlife isn’t impossible—it just requires a little courage, an open heart, and maybe a well-placed app or two. Apps like Meetup, Bumble BFF, and Hey! VINA are powerful tools to help you forge new connections, but the key is to take that first step. So go ahead, ladies. Download an app, send a message, and start building the friendships you deserve. Life’s too short to go it alone—your people are out there waiting for you!

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Making new friends after 40 can feel about as easy as finding jeans that fit just right. (Seriously, why is that so hard?) If you’ve ever thought, I wish I had more close friends, but where do I even start? — you’re not alone.

Let’s be real—making friends in midlife isn’t as effortless as it used to be. Gone are the days of bonding over juice box spills at the playground or casual chats in the school pickup line. But here’s the thing—you can make new friends as an older woman. It just takes a little intention, a little bravery, and maybe a little pickleball. (More on that later.)

Why Making Friends as an Adult Feels So Dang Hard

Ever feel like making new friends as an adult is way harder than it used to be? You’re not wrong. Here’s why:

You’re not naturally meeting up anymore. Back in the day, friendships happened on repeat—school pickup lines, PTA meetings, sports sidelines. Now? Those built-in social moments are gone, so making new connections takes more effort. And the friendship experts, yes that’s a thing, tell us proximity and repeated exposure is the secret sauce to friendship formation.

Your circle has shrunk. Life changes—kids grow up, careers shift, people move. That once-solid mom group or work crew? Not as tight as it used to be.

Fewer easy opportunities. Making friends as an adult is harder without those everyday run-ins, we have to actively seek out friendships instead of just stumbling into them. It’s about being intentional and prioritizing friendship.

Fear of rejection. Let’s be honest—putting yourself out there is nerve-wracking. But here’s the thing: most women also want more friends, and they’re just waiting for someone (like you!) to make the first move. Be open and honest, how would you react if someone said to you, “I’m bored. Kind of lonely. I need a new friend and I think you’d be a lot of fun – would you like to grab brunch this weekend?” What would your response be?

Different priorities. Between work, family, and self-care, socializing can end up dead last on the to-do list. 

Moving or starting over. A fresh start sounds great—until you realize you have to build a whole new social circle from scratch.

Feel familiar? Let’s move on to what you can do about it. (Hint: A lot.)

Why Friendships in Midlife Are the Ultimate Life Hack

Step-by-Step Guide to Making New Friends After 40

Step 1: Identify the Friendships You Want

Not all friendships are the same, and not all friendships need to be deep soul-bonding relationships. Do you want:

• A casual social circle for fun activities? (Think: women’s social group, book clubs, or travel buddies.)
• A tight-knit inner circle of women who get you?
• An adventure crew for hiking, pickleball, or road trips?
• A professional network of like-minded women in your industry?

Knowing what you’re looking for makes it easier to find the right people and organize the activities around what your friendship goals are. 

Step 2: Get Out of Your Comfort Zone

You can’t make new friends sitting on your couch watching Netflix. (I know. I checked.) Here’s what helps:

• Say yes more often. If someone invites you somewhere—go. Even if it’s a little outside your comfort zone.
• Challenge negative self-talk. If you’re thinking, I’m too old for this, I’m too awkward, or What if they don’t like me?—shut that down. You are worthy of great friendships.
• Be open to different types of people. Your new best friend might not look like the ones from your past.
• Start small. Even a quick conversation at a coffee shop can lead to something more.
• Put yourself in new environments. Try new places, events, or hobbies.

Step 3: Find Places to Meet Like-Minded Women

Alright, so where do you meet women who are also looking to build friendships?

Join an interest-based group. Whether it’s hiking, pottery, a women’s social group, or even a whiskey-tasting club—common interests make bonding easier. 

Attend meetups & community events. Check Meetup.com, Facebook Groups, or local events for gatherings in your area.

Take a class or workshop. Dance lessons, photography, cooking—learning something new is a great way to connect. 

Give friendship apps a try. Yes, they exist! Friendship apps like Bumble BFF, Peanut, and Friender are designed for women looking to make new friends as an older woman. Read the blog post “ “

Volunteer: Do Good, Make Friends, Have Fun

Every time I walk into the Assistance League thrift store in Boise, I’m hit with the best kind of welcome—laughter, chatter, and the happy hum of women who clearly love being there. It’s less like a thrift shop and more like a social club that just happens to be doing some good in the world.

If you’re looking to make new friends and feel good about how you spend your time, volunteering is the ultimate two-for-one deal. Find a cause that speaks to you, show up, and let the friendships happen naturally.

Not sure where to find a volunteer opportunity that fits you? Start with VolunteerMatch.org—it’s like a matchmaking service for doing good. Want to take it up a notch and make an impact beyond your hometown? Check out “Best Volunteer Programs Abroad for Older Adults“ and find out how you can turn your next adventure into something meaningful.

Step 4: Master the Art of Connection

Be Like Annie—The Ultimate Friend Finder

Who’s Annie? Oh, she’s the kind of woman you want in your circle. Annie walks into a room with her friend finder radar on high alert mode. No hesitation, no awkward standing-around energy—she’s scanning the space like she’s on a mission.

I met Annie in an art class. From the second she walked in, she was looking for something. At first, I thought maybe she lost a paintbrush or was trying to figure out where the best lighting was. But after watching her for a few minutes, my curiosity got the best of me.

“What are you looking for?” I asked, fully expecting her to say she forgot a supply or needed help finding a seat.

She turned to me with zero hesitation and said, “I’m looking for a new friend.”

Boom. Just like that. No fear, no embarrassment—just straight-up intention.

And guess what? She found one. Because when you decide to look for connection, you find it. Annie didn’t wait for friendships to magically happen. She didn’t sit back, hoping someone would talk to her first. She owned her desire for connection and put herself out there.

So, be like Annie. Walk into rooms like there’s a friendship goldmine waiting to be discovered—because there is. You just have to be willing to look.

Other thoughts about how to make actual friends: 

Ditch the small talk, go for the good stuff. Nobody bonds over, “Wow, hot enough for ya?” If you want real friendships, start with real conversations. Ask open-ended questions that invite more than a one-word answer—“What brought you here?” or “What’s something you’re excited about lately?” is way better than another weather report. And here’s the secret sauce: be more interested than interesting. Listen like you actually care (because you do), ask follow-ups, and engage with genuine curiosity. People love feeling heard—it’s like a friendship superpower. Use it.

Putting it on the schedule. We should grab coffee sometime!” sounds nice, but let’s be real—sometime is code for never gonna happen. If you vibe with someone, make it real. Be direct: “Are you free next Tuesday for coffee?” or “Let’s hit that new wine bar on Friday—does that work for you?” People appreciate a little initiative, and let’s face it, we’re all busy. If you don’t nail down a plan, life will fill the gap with errands, emails, and “maybe laters.” So go for it—extend the invite, set the date, and make the friendship happen.

Be vulnerable. Real friendships require real conversations. If you’re always “fine,” you’ll only build surface-level connections. How to turn “how are you” into a great conversation: 

• I’m doing great, thanks! Guess what happened today…
• Lately, I’ve been really excited about…
• I’m feeling adventurous. I just finished planning a trip…
• I’m on top of the world! I just achieved a major milestone…
• I’m doing well, thanks! What’s been the best part of your day or week?

Give before you take. Want rock-solid friendships? Be the kind of friend you would want. Show up—not just when it’s convenient, but when it counts. Cheer her on, check in just because, and be there when life throws her a curveball (or a celebratory champagne moment). Friendship isn’t about keeping score—it’s about showing up, being present, and giving a damn. Pour into the people who matter, and trust me, that goodness will come right back to you.

Step 5: Friendships are like houseplants – water them or they wither

Friendships don’t just happen—they need love, attention, and a little effort (kind of like that fiddle-leaf fig you keep forgetting to water). Here’s how to keep your friendships thriving:

Make plans—and actually keep them. Life is busy, we get it. But if you’re always saying “Let’s do lunch!” and never following through, those connections will fizzle. Put it on the calendar and show up. Read the article, “How to create a thriving friend group” for a creative way to build strong friendships and have a lot of fun.

Say the nice things out loud. Don’t just think “I love hanging out with her”—tell her! A simple “You always make my day better” or “I appreciate you” keeps friendships strong.

Be the friend who celebrates. Big wins, birthdays, or just surviving a rough week—cheer each other on! Friendship is about showing up for the good and the messy.

Know when to let go. If a friendship feels one-sided, draining, or just off, it’s okay to walk away. Protect your energy, wish them well, and make space for the people who truly lift you up.

Bottom line? Friendships need effort, but the right ones are absolutely worth it.

Overcoming Common Friendship Hurdles—Because We’ve All Been There

Making new friends as an adult isn’t always smooth sailing. In fact, it can feel downright awkward at times—like showing up to a party where you don’t know anyone and suddenly forgetting how to human. But guess what? You’re not alone. Here’s how to push past the common roadblocks and start building those real connections.

“What if I feel awkward?”

Oh, you mean like every single person ever when meeting someone new? Listen, everyone feels awkward at first—it’s just part of the deal. The trick? Push through it. Keep showing up, keep putting yourself in situations where friendships can happen, and before you know it, that awkward “uhhh so, do you like…stuff?” stage fades. And remember: most people are just as nervous as you are. They’re too busy worrying about their awkwardness to notice yours.

“What if I don’t have time?”

I get it—life is packed. Work, family, laundry piles that seem to multiply overnight. But here’s the thing: we make time for what matters. If you can carve out an hour for a Netflix binge, you can carve out an hour for coffee with a friend. Friendships, like self-care and exercise, need to be a priority. Schedule it like you would a doctor’s appointment. Protect that time, because connection is part of a healthy, thriving life.

“What if I get rejected?”

Oof. Rejection sucks—we’ve all felt it, whether it was in middle school, dating, or trying to join a new group as an adult. But here’s the truth: not everyone is going to be your people, and that’s okay. It’s not personal; it’s just chemistry. Keep putting yourself out there, because for every missed connection, there’s someone else out there looking for a friend exactly like you.

“What if I’m an introvert?”

Ah, my fellow introverts—we don’t hate people, we just need them in smaller, quieter doses. And that’s totally fine! You don’t have to dive into a loud, bustling women’s social group if that’s not your thing. Focus on one-on-one meetups, intimate book clubs, or slower-paced activities where deep conversation happens naturally. Friendship isn’t about collecting a hundred acquaintances—it’s about finding your people, even if that’s just a handful of really solid ones.

The Bottom Line? You’ve Got This.

Making new friends can feel like stepping into unknown territory, but don’t let that hold you back. Push through the awkward, make time for connection, don’t take rejection personally, and honor your own personality in the process. The friendships that are meant for you? They’re out there—you just have to take the first step.

How Silver Sage Collective Helps You Build Friendships

If you’re looking for a built-in women’s social group, Silver Sage Collective is your home base for meaningful connections, adventures, and fun. Here’s how we can help:

• Local and virtual meetups where you can connect with like-minded women.
• Small group travel experiences to explore the world and make lasting friendships.
• Digital resource to keep you inspired and engaged.

Your Next Step: Take Action

Making friends after 40 isn’t just possible—it’s essential for living a vibrant life. But here’s the thing: friendship won’t just happen to you—you have to make the first move.

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Hey, travel dreamers! Let’s get real for a second. Are you tired of going on trips, snapping the same old touristy photos, and coming home feeling…meh? Yeah, me too.

That’s why it’s time to shake it up. Enter intentional travel—a way to make every trip not just another escape but a life-changing adventure. This is for the women who want more than a checkmark on their bucket list. You want meaning. You want connection. You want to grow, laugh, cry (happy tears), and come back with a story worth telling.

Let’s talk about transformative travel and how to set travel goals to make your journeys more meaningful. Whether you’re bonding with your besties, challenging yourself, or diving headfirst into a new culture, setting goals is the key to making your next trip unforgettable.

What’s the Big Deal About Travel Goals?

Good question! Setting travel goals is a game-changer for women who are done with the run-of-the-mill vacation and ready to turn every trip into a soul-filling, life-expanding adventure. Intentional travel isn’t about snapping pics for Instagram (though, hey, no judgment—I do it too). It’s about traveling with a purpose. You don’t just go somewhere—you go FOR something: personal growth, cultural immersion, learning, connection, or even giving back.

That way you wake up excited every day of your journey and have experiences that will fill your cup. They help you prioritize what truly matters—whether that’s creating memories with your people, immersing yourself in local culture, or finally ticking that big adventure off your bucket list.

Why Plan Your Trips With Goals in Mind?

Because winging it works for birds, not bucket lists. 

Make It Count: Your trips become super intentional.

Be a traveller not a tourist: You’ll find the good stuff that make great experiences.

Feel Fulfilled: You’re not just checking off landmarks; you’re making memories that matter.

The Many Flavors of Transformative Travel (and Why You Need to Try Them All)

Here’s where the fun begins. Let’s dive into the kinds of intentional travel experiences you can embrace, with some fresh, unusual suggestions to spice things up.

Bond With Your People

Travel has a magical way of bringing people closer—whether it’s your partner, your kids, or your best friends.

Try This: Rent a yurt and spend a weekend stargazing, storytelling, and making s’mores. Or head to a cozy mountain town for some hot cocoa and quality time. Or rent a convertible & take a trip down the Pacific Coast Highway or travel Route 66. 

Immerse Yourself in Culture

Forget the guided tour with headphones—get your hands dirty and your heart full. And if you want a guided tour, hire a local. I’ve personally had excellent experiences hiring European locals through With Locals.

Try This: Take part in a tea ceremony in Japan, learn pottery-making in Morocco, or spend a day learning how to make pasta in Italy.

Challenge Yourself

Push your limits. You’ll come home with stories that start with “I didn’t think I could, but then I did…”

Try This: Hike a glacier in Iceland. Take a solo road trip through a country where you don’t speak the language. Or zipline through a rainforest even if heights make you queasy.

Learn Something New

Travel is the ultimate classroom!

Try This: Learn flamenco dancing in Spain, foraging in the Pacific Northwest, or even survival skills in the wild. (Who doesn’t want to channel their inner badass?)

Give Back

Make your trip about more than just you.

Try This: Volunteer at an animal sanctuary in Thailand. Help restore coral reefs in Belize. Or join a community project like building schools in Nepal.

Seek Self-Discovery

Sometimes, you don’t need a big plan—just a quiet moment to reconnect with yourself.

Try This: Spend a week at a meditation retreat in Bali or walk the Camino de Santiago for clarity, peace, and maybe a little magic.

Sometimes, you need more than a getaway—you need a reset for your mind and rest, real rest for your body. 

Try This: Disconnect to be fully present. Try forest bathing in the ancient redwood forest in California or try a silent retreat. Esalen has been on my bucket list and should be on yours too.

When you travel with purpose, it’s not just about where you go—it’s about what you gain. Instead of flying somewhere just to lounge by the pool (which, let’s be real, has its moments), you dive headfirst into an experience that makes you feel alive. Intentional travel is about having a clear objective—learning something new, challenging yourself, or connecting deeply with a place or its people.

Think less tourist, more trailblazer. It’s travel with meaning. Whether it’s exploring the artsy streets of Mexico City to reignite your creative spark, volunteering at an elephant sanctuary in Thailand, or simply escaping to a mountain cabin for some soul-searching—you’re traveling with heart and purpose.

How to Be Intentional When You Travel

Okay, so how do you actually do this? Don’t worry—it’s easier than you think. It starts with asking yourself a few key questions:

Why Are You Going?

No, seriously. WHY? Are you trying to connect with your creative side? Heal from burnout? Or just learn how to make the perfect Italian pasta (yum)? Get real about your goals, and let them shape your trip.

How Will You Spend Your Time?

Skip the “must-see” tourist destinations unless they light you up. Instead:

• Book a cooking class with a local grandma.
• Wander aimlessly through a neighborhood off the beaten path – be open to discoveries.
• Volunteer a morning at a community project. Look around for a new friend at the same time.
• Talk to locals – strike up conversations with everyone you can. The person serving your breakfast, the lady next to you on the bus, the cashier at the museum store – seek their advice. Where do they love to eat? What place is their favorite? If their sister/cousin/grandma were visiting, where would they take them? People love to offer advice as long as they see your curiosity and excitement.  

Who Will You Impact?

Intentional travel isn’t just about you. It’s about being a mindful traveler. Think:

• Supporting local businesses (for the moment no Starbucks & McDonald’s, please).
• Being respectful of cultural norms (read up before you go).
• Minimize your tourist imprint – leave the place better than you found it. 

Let’s Make Your Travel Dreams Happen

Ready to take your trips from “meh” to magical? At Silver Sage Collective, we’re all about creating experiences that matter. Whether you are looking for a small group trip with like-minded women or tips to help you plan your solo adventure, we’ve got you.

Join the club for travel inspiration, tips, and updates on upcoming trips. It’s time to stop traveling aimlessly and start creating adventures you’ll never forget.

Let’s make those intentional travel goals a reality—together.

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Whether you want to sip champagne overlooking the Thames, get your adrenaline pumping, or uncover hidden gems locals love, this 7-day London itinerary has you covered. So grab your besties, your walking shoes, and let’s do this thing!

For more unusual adventures with a local twist: This itinerary is part of a girlfriend getaway trip that is coming soon.

Arrival and Soaking in the Local Vibes – Day 1

Morning: Land at Heathrow or Gatwick, take the Tube and drop your bags at a stylish boutique hotel (Henrietta Hotel in Covent Garden is a great choice), and start your day with a strong cup of coffee at Monmouth Coffee. This charming spot is where locals fuel up for the day.

Afternoon: Shake off the jet lag with a leisurely stroll through Little Venice. This picturesque canal area is lined with colorful houseboats and quaint cafes. For a local favorite, take a canal boat ride to Camden Market — a bustling hub of vintage shops, street food, and quirky treasures.

Evening: Kick off your London adventure with a riverfront dinner at Sea Containers Restaurant. Overlooking the Thames, this chic spot serves up fabulous food and a stunning view. Follow it up with a nighttime walk along the Southbank, where you can enjoy street performers, pop-up bars, and the city’s iconic skyline illuminated against the river.

East London’s Edgy Adventures – Day 2

Morning: Start your day with a visit to Broadway Market in Hackney. This vibrant street is packed with independent shops, artisan food stalls, and a buzzing Saturday market where you can sample everything from vegan pastries to handmade trinkets.

Afternoon: Escape the crowds with a peaceful walk along the Regent’s Canal to Victoria Park. Known as “the People’s Park,” it’s a local favorite for a picnic or a serene boat ride on the park’s small lake. Stop by a nearby café like The Pavilion for a light lunch.

Evening: For a truly unique experience, head to God’s Own Junkyard, a kaleidoscopic neon paradise tucked away in Walthamstow. Sip on cocktails surrounded by dazzling vintage signs and enjoy the vibrant, artistic atmosphere.

Exploring Central London’s Classics – Day 3

Morning: Start your day with the iconic sights. Visit Buckingham Palace to watch the Changing of the Guard or schedule a tour, then stroll over to Westminster Abbey, Parliament, and Big Ben. These historic landmarks are must-sees for any 7-day London itinerary.

Afternoon: Love to shop? Head to Harrods in Knightsbridge, one of the world’s largest and most famous department stores. Alternatively, if you’re a history buff, immerse yourself in the past at the Churchill War Rooms. This underground museum’s self-guided audio tour offers an incredible glimpse into World War II history. Or my personal favorite, The British Museum, the largest collection of artifacts in the world.

Evening: Wrap up your day with dinner at Gymkhana in Mayfair, a Michelin-starred Indian restaurant that’s beloved by foodies and locals alike. Don’t miss the tandoori dishes and perfectly spiced curries!

West London Charm and Rooftop Views – Day 4

Afternoon: Spend a few hours exploring Richmond Park. Rent bikes or simply roam around spotting wild deer. Not feeling that, stretch your legs walking Mayfair, Covent Garden or Soho – these areas are full of shops and cute streets. For lunch, locals swear by Petersham Nurseries Cafe — think dreamy garden vibes with a side of fresh, seasonal food and owner of the Michelin Green Star. They also host a variety of interesting seasonal workshops. 

Evening: Dress up for a visit to Sky Garden, a rooftop oasis offering breathtaking views of London. Sip champagne and watch the city lights sparkle. Get tickets to London’s Broadway and enjoy a show on the West End.

South London Surprises – Day 5

Morning: Discover the tranquil Chelsea Physic Garden, one of London’s oldest botanical gardens. This secret gem feels miles away from the hustle and bustle.

Afternoon: Take a short train ride to Greenwich. Stand on the Prime Meridian line, then explore the Greenwich Market for handcrafted goods and global street food. Wrap up with a riverside walk or a quick climb up to The Royal Observatory for stunning views.

Evening: Enjoy dinner at The Cutty Sark, a riverside pub serving hearty British dishes. End the day with a late-night ride on the Emirates Air Line Cable Car for a bird’s-eye view of the city.

Hidden History and Cultural Quirks – Day 6

Morning: Visit the Sir John Soane’s Museum, a fascinating labyrinth of art, architecture, and curiosities. It’s free, and its eccentric charm is pure London.

Relax and Reflect – Day 7 

Morning: Savor your last morning in London with breakfast at The Wolseley. This grand cafe-restaurant blends elegance with old-world charm.

Afternoon: Stroll through Covent Garden, watching street performers and shopping for last-minute treasures. Visit Neal’s Yard, a hidden courtyard filled with colorful buildings, organic cafes, and wellness shops.

Evening: End your trip with a farewell dinner at St. John Bread and Wine, where the menu celebrates simple, hearty British fare. Toast to a week of laughter, exploration, and unforgettable memories.

Tips to Make the Most of Your Girlfriends’ Getaway

Pack Smart: Bring versatile outfits that can transition from day to night. Comfortable walking shoes are a must, but pack one pair of fabulous heels for an upscale evening. Don’t forget an umbrella — London’s weather is as unpredictable as a plot twist in a mystery novel.

Use Public Transport: An Oyster Card is your best friend for zipping around the city on buses, the Tube, and even riverboats. It’s cost-effective and gives you a chance to experience London like a local.

Pack Light – Leave Room for Shopping: Whether it’s vintage finds from Shoreditch or bespoke treasures from Covent Garden, London’s shopping scene is irresistible. Leave a little extra space in your suitcase for those unexpected gems.

Stay Flexible: While this 7-day London itinerary is packed, leave some time to explore spontaneously. Stumbling upon a hidden café or quirky bookshop can be the highlight of your trip.

Book in Advance: Don’t miss out on something you really want to do, like exploring the Tower Bridge or catching a show at the Globe because you didn’t book it ahead of time.

Local Apps: Download Citymapper to navigate London’s complex transport system with ease. For foodie inspiration, check out OpenTable for last-minute dinner reservations.

This isn’t your typical London vacation. It’s a girlfriends’ getaway that mixes adventure, relaxation, and a sprinkle of spice. From secret gardens to rooftop cocktails, this 7-day London itinerary is all about experiencing the city like a local — with a dash of Silver Sage style. So pack your bags, ladies, and prepare for the London adventure of a lifetime!

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Ignite Your Wanderlust

Adventure books by women reveal the beauty of bold choices, especially when society says we should “settle down.” These tales remind us that exploration isn’t about age—it’s about attitude. Here are a few life-changing benefits of diving into these reads:

Expands Your Comfort Zone: Travel and adventure books are a safe way to challenge our comfort zones. Every page encourages us to think, “If she can do it, so can I.”

Inspires Courageous Living: The courage in these pages is contagious. Taking a step toward what you want, regardless of age, is what true adventure is all about.

Inspires Growth: Just as these authors grow through their adventures, we’re reminded of our ability to adapt and embrace whatever life throws our way. From learning to rely on oneself to understanding new cultures, these stories encourage us to grow in ways that defy stereotypes about “aging gracefully.” 

Whether you’re dreaming of epic hikes, gritty journeys of self-discovery, or travel that dives deep into culture and the unknown, these books are packed with bold women who push limits. These adventure books for women are here to remind us that it’s never too late to make bold choices. Perfect for curling up with a glass of wine, jotting down travel notes, or just getting inspired, here’s the list.

Tough Broad by Caroline Paul

Caroline Paul has always filled her life with adventure: From mountain biking in the Bolivian Andes to pitching a tent, mid-blizzard, on Denali, she has never been a stranger to the exhilaration the outdoors can hold. Yet through it all, she has long wondered, Why aren’t women, like men, encouraged to keep adventuring into old age?

Tough Broad is her quest to understand not just how to live a dynamic life in a changing body, but why we must. She dives deep into the current research on aging, and highlights the results with the stories of women like 93-year-old hiker Dot Fisher-Smith, 80-year-old SCUBA diver Louise Wholey, 52-year-old BASE jumper Drew Brooks, 64-year-old birdwatcher Virginia Rose, and the many septuagenarian Wave Catchers who boogie board together in the San Diego surf. These women aren’t experts. But their experiences and the scientific studies that back them up offer important insight into our own physical and emotional health as we age, showing that growing older is no reason for women to sell themselves short. Tough Broad is a high-spirited call for women to embrace the outdoors, not back away from it, in our fifties, sixties, seventies, and beyond, casting our own futures in a new and dazzling light.

Wild by Cheryl Strayed

Cheryl Strayed’s book always makes the list for women no matter their age. While she may be only twenty-two, Cheryl Strayed’s story resonates with older women because at its core it’s about loss. In the wake of her mother’s death, her family scattered and her own marriage was soon destroyed. Four years later, with nothing more to lose, she made the most impulsive decision of her life. With no experience or training, driven only by blind will, she would hike more than a thousand miles of the Pacific Crest Trail from the Mojave Desert through California and Oregon to Washington State — and she would do it alone. It’s gritty, messy, and real as Strayed finds herself through sheer will and wilderness.

Alone Time: Four Seasons, Four Cities, and the Pleasures of Solitude by Stephanie Rosenbloom

Rosenbloom’s solo travels through some of Europe’s most romantic cities—Paris, Florence, Istanbul, and New York—are not just about sightseeing but about savoring the profound moments of solo travel. Alone Time offers a refreshing perspective on solo travel, showing how solitude can be a source of richness and restoration. Four cities,  four different seasons, the book explores how time alone can spark creativity, build self-reliance, and encourage self-discovery. With vivid descriptions of mouth-watering food, charming settings, and encounters with locals, it’s an invitation to savor the small joys we often overlook. This read isn’t just for planning a solo adventure; it’s a reminder of the beauty in slowing down and making our own memories, fully present and unhurried.

Tracks by Robyn Davidson

Imagine trekking 1,700 miles through the Australian desert—alone with only camels and a dog.Robyn Davidson’s opens the memoir of her perilous journey across 1,700 miles of hostile Australian desert to the sea with only four camels and a dog for company with the following words: “I experienced that sinking feeling you get when you know you have conned yourself into doing something difficult and there’s no going back.” Braving scorching heat, dodging poisonous snakes, dealing with lecherous men, and caring for her unpredictable camels, Davidson shows incredible grit and courage on her solo journey across Australia. Fueled by a deep love for the land and a respect for its indigenous people, she sheds the layers of her past self. Tracks is her powerful, no-holds-barred story of discovery and transformation in the heart of the outback. Davidson’s memoir is fearless, raw, and shows the beauty and danger of blazing one’s own trail.

Lands of Lost Borders by Kate Harris

In this deeply reflective journey, Harris bicycles the ancient Silk Road, reconnecting with nature, history, and her own curiosity about the world and human boundaries.

As a teenager, Kate Harris realized that the career she most craved–that of a generalist explorer, equal parts swashbuckler and philosopher–had gone extinct. Eventually the truth dawned on her: an explorer, in any day and age, is by definition the kind of person who refuses to live between the lines.  “Every day on a bike trip is like the one before–but it is also completely different, or perhaps you are different, woken up in new ways by the mile.”

All Over the Place by Geraldine DeRuiter

Hilarious, irreverent, and heartfelt, All Over the Place chronicles the years Geraldine spent traveling the world after getting laid off from a job she loved. Those years taught her a great number of things, though the ability to read a map was not one of them. This book has lovers and haters – no matter what you think about this book it ends with the following sentence about traveling which will stay with me for a long time: “Even if you don’t end up where you planned, you still might end up somewhere great.”

A Woman Alone: Travel Tales from Around the Globe

What a fun book! A Woman Alone is a compilation of short travel narratives by women traveling alone. The authors tell a great story of experiences in India, Los Vegas, Brazil, Japan, and many places in between. Some authors emphasize solo travel as a way to experience independence and freedom. Others speak about loneliness or self-reflection or self-discovery. In the end, whether or not you decide you want to travel solo, you’ll certainly want to travel! 

Under the Tuscan Sun by Frances Mayes

This book may be familiar to you, you’re probably thinking – isn’t that a movie – yes, it is, but, don’t be too hasty to discount this book choice. First, the book is always way better than the movie. Frances Mayes story is more than just a memoir of her life in the Italian countryside; it’s a layered journey of rediscovery. Through her poetic prose, Mayes invites us to savor the sensory richness of Italy—the smells, the sounds, and the quiet nostalgia that lingers in each remembered moment. Her account is about more than restoring an old farmhouse; it’s about dismantling her own life and rebuilding it with intention, finding meaning in the present. As she works the land and rebuilds her home, we see her crafting a life filled with good food, wine, and personal growth. May we all be inspired to create the lives we want, grounded in the things that bring us joy and fulfillment.

The Sun is a Compass by Caroline Van Hemert

Ornithologist Caroline Van Hemert began to feel caged by the sterile lab environment, where she felt increasingly disconnected from the wild world she loved. Craving a return to nature and the thrill of discovery, she decided to step away from the lab and into the wilderness. With her husband, she embarked on an epic 4,000-mile journey through the Pacific rainforest to the Alaskan Arctic, traveling by rowboat, ski, foot, raft, and canoe. Along the way, they braved life-threatening challenges, but they also found moments of pure wonder—migrating birds against a moonlit sky, the misty breath of caribou, and a deepened bond forged through their shared adventure. The book pulls you in from its first chapter. Then it backtracks, filling in necessary information. Once the journey is started, the telling moves forward chronologically. The end has both an element of suspense and a beautifully drawn episode with caribou, affording wonderful armchair travel. 

Another Step Up the Mountain by Dianette Wells

In 2015, Dianette lost her son Johnny to a wing suiting accident, driving her to withdraw into severe depression. However, with the support of those around her, Dianette’s desire to compete in endurance sports and her love of mountain climbing helped her find an inner strength to begin healing. As she had in the past, she faced adversity and found her inner power by embracing her devotion to sports and family. Full of beautiful and uplifting moments, Dianette’s story will inspire you to rediscover what joy means to you and how we must cherish our intrinsic abilities.

Gorge by Kara Richardson Whitely

Gorge is the raw story of Kara’s ascent from the depths of self-doubt to the top of the world (Mt. Kilimanjaro). Her difficult but inspiring trek speaks to every woman who has struggled with her self-image or felt that food was controlling her life. Honest and unforgettable, Kara’s journey is one of intense passion, endurance, and self-acceptance. What stands out most in this memoir is its raw honesty. Whitely shines a light on a conversation society often avoids—the complex struggle with obesity. Too often, people cast judgment without understanding the person behind the struggle, reducing them to stereotypes and stripping away their humanity. Yet, this isn’t a story rooted in bitterness. Whitely candidly reveals the moments when food became her escape, the comfort it offered, and the reasons that led her to it, capturing the complexity of addiction without assigning blame. She balances her own accountability with the impact of others’ perceptions, inviting us to recognize our own judgments and see the fullness of her journey—and maybe even our own responses to those who struggle with weight.

Go Find by Susan Purvis

Susan Purvis’s wild ride of training her stubborn black Lab, Tasha, into an avalanche rescue dog. With little knowledge of dog training, Susan faces hilarious mishaps and intense setbacks, but the duo’s resilience carries them forward. Along the way, she shares fascinating insights into scent detection and avalanche science, making even complex topics relatable. The real-life rescue missions are nothing short of harrowing—scaling icy peaks, braving avalanches, and searching for victims, often with no pay and the sole reward of closure for grieving families. Chasing her dream, Susan not only risks everything but builds a career training others in wilderness rescue across the globe.  Great For: Readers captivated by intense adventures and personal transformation amidst life-or-death stakes.

Found by Bree Loewen

Loewen has become a wife, a mother, and a leader of Seattle Mountain Rescue (SMR), a volunteer-based search-and-rescue operation. She no longer struggles with the respect of co-workers (she has it in spades) nor crippling self-doubt (overcome after hundreds of rescues). But she does still ponder the question of why she continues to head into the backcountry, confronting danger, risk, and, often, death. SMR is involved in everything from high profile accidents to rescues that never even make the local news. And since the climbing and outdoor community in Seattle is so close-knit, Loewen often finds herself involved in efforts to rescue friends and acquaintances. A distinct and fearless voice quiet and thoughtful, yet laced with dark humor; utterly honest and disarming; clear and graceful. Loewen conveys the intensity of rescue and recovery situations as well as the beauty of wilderness landscapes in accessible, real, and convincing language.

Into the Planet by Jill Heinerth

Jill Heinert is one of the leading cave divers and one of the few women in the field— this book blends science, adventure, and memoir to take us on a journey through the terrifying and beautiful unknowns of our planet. As the first person to dive deep into an Antarctic iceberg and a leader in discovering the ancient underwater remains of Mayan civilizations, she has ventured farther into the Earth’s depths than any other woman. Heinerth shares gripping, split-second decisions that can mean the difference between life and death, alongside the biases that often hinder women in this male-dominated field. This book offers a fascinating insight into the world of cave diving, filled with intense stories of risk and loss, and it also highlights her struggles with sexism as she navigated her career. I now have a much deeper appreciation for what cave diving truly entails!

Unbound by Steph Jagger

Jagger leaves behind a conventional life to pursue a ski journey around the world, redefining her own identity and learning what it means to live fully and freely. What hiking was for Cheryl Strayed, skiing became for Steph: a crucible in which to crack open her life and get to the very center of herself. But she would have to break herself down—first physically, then emotionally—before she could start to rebuild. And it was through this journey that she came to understand how to be a woman, how to love, and how to live authentically. Electrifying, heartfelt, and full of humor, Unbound is Steph’s story—an odyssey of courage and self-discovery. A great read if you’re ready to let go of old expectations and embark on a journey of self-discovery.

Braving the Wilderness by Brené Brown

While this book may not be about wilderness or travel, Brene Brown is always a great choice and perfect for those of us that are ready to embrace their authentic selves and brave the world with heart. If you’re ready to bust stereotypes, challenge expectations of what it means to be middle aged or just needing to find the courage to authentically show up in the world this is your book. “True belonging doesn’t require us to change who we are. It requires us to be who we are.” Social scientist Brene Brown, PhD, LMSW, has sparked a global conversation about the experiences that bring meaning to our lives–experiences of courage, vulnerability, love, belonging, shame, and empathy. In Braving the Wilderness, Brown redefines what it means to truly belong in an age of increased polarization. With her trademark mix of research, storytelling, and honesty, Brown will again change the cultural conversation while mapping a clear path to true belonging.

Bonus – A Few Books I’ve added to my reading list that might interest you.

Embracing Adventure at Any Age

You don’t need to hike across continents or live out of a suitcase (though, hey, why not?) to bring adventure into your life. Whether through travel, new skills, or meeting new people, adventure is about staying curious, feeling alive, and embracing our own daring spirit. These books for women who love to explore are here to inspire that spirit in you.

So pick one up, dive in, and get ready to say yes to more of life’s possibilities. Who knows? That next chapter might just be your own.

From the grit of the wilderness to the transformative power of small moments, these books are proof that adventure isn’t just a place on a map—it’s an outlook. Silver Sage Collective is here to cheer you on as you embrace your inner explorer.

The Next Step: Making Adventure Part of Everyday Life

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